I’m not ashamed to admit that I like to look at naked women on the internet. Usually I use Reddit to do this; in addition to communities about dogs, fails, and kink, I belong to several that focus on various types of women. Some of them are large-breasted women, as it happens.
One phrase I seem to see too often that makes me queasy is “mommy milkers”, referring to breasts.
I can’t put my finger on why this particular phrase bothers me. Maybe because it objectifies the women by turning them into vehicles for their breasts. Also, I can’t really imagine a woman referring to her breasts as “mommy milkers”. Maybe that’s just the women I know, though.
Let’s take, for example, the photo above. She’s a more-or-less conventionally-attractive woman, right? And she happens to have large breasts. When I look at this photo, I don’t think “mommy milkers”; actually, what I think is that the cropping of the photo to just show a hint of pubic hair makes it sexier — I could easily see what’s between her legs with a quick search, but it’s what you can’t see that’s sometimes better than what you can.
The only time I could possibly think about a woman’s breasts being “mommy milkers” is if I saw a woman breastfeeding, and even then I wouldn’t think of them with those words. I would probably think something like: “oh, that woman is breastfeeding.”
I truly don’t understand why we have to attach appellations like this to body parts. They just make me shudder, and I won’t even click on an image with that kind of label on it. I don’t want to see it and think those words.
4 thoughts on “Mommy Milkers”
Meh, had always just ascribed diminishing individuals to mere body parts as just satisfying an individual’s personal urges, rather than anything about who’s being objectified – everyone’s into something, and ANR & Lactophilia do exist; and as a male, is BBC/BWC any better?
“Usually I use Reddit to do this”? What links are recommended? Hadn’t seen any success with Reddit compared to FetLife or Tumblr or Twitter, so beneficial input is welcomed.
There used to be a way to find random NSFW subreddits but I can’t seem to find it anymore. Basically just search for what you like; I guarantee there’s a subreddit for it.
Thanks for reply & input regarding Reddit resources, but what’s purpose/value/etc. to “search for what you like” when it’s so freely available elsewhere? Is there really a reason to ever log into Reddit?
I mean, ultimately it’s up to you. I like Reddit because I can curate a feed of things that interest me.