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Recently I was talking to Partner 1 about some things and I mentioned that, if she was open to the idea, I would like to try slapping her during sex and/or play. Of course I slap her ass, and sometimes her breasts, but I was talking about slapping her face. This is something I’ve done before, and I know how to do it carefully and without causing harm. I wasn’t planning to haul off and whack her as hard as I can, either; just a firm smack to her cheek.

The first time we did it, she took two and was so overwhelmed (in a good way) that she said we had to stop doing that. Of course, we were also fucking at the time, and I was overwhelming her with orgasms.

The second time, she took four, and on the third she came all over me. Needless to say, that was pretty fucking hot. I asked permission to slap the other side, and she took four more. Shortly after that, the sexytimes ended because we were both so turned on and I fucked her until I came.

I don’t do face-slapping to demean the other person. As with spanking, I’m doing it for the sensation, and (not gonna lie) for the power/dominance that it allows me to exert over the other person, who has chosen to give me that power/dominance. I would never do it without discussing it first, and I can’t foresee a time when I don’t ask in the moment, even though sometimes it can break up the flow of things.

I have used face-slapping as a punishment before; once, many years ago, I told someone that if she swore I would slap her across the face. She tried me, and she learned quickly that I wasn’t messing around. I didn’t hit her very hard, just enough to get her attention, and I told her what she’d done wrong and why she was being punished before I did it.

Face-slapping isn’t for everyone, and it’s not something I want to do every time, but it provides a nice bit of additional spice. I’m glad I found someone who likes it.