What exactly is the appeal of a gloryhole? According to the Wikipedia entry, it could be the anonymity, or it could be the physical barrier standing in for a psychological barrier. It could be that guys want to get their cocks sucked by other guys but don’t want to see it going on — like, if you can’t see it, you can imagine it’s a woman? But you know it’s a guy back there, so why would you… oh, I don’t know.

I’m not one to rain on anyone’s parade, but I guess I just don’t understand the appeal of anonymous sexual encounters. I want to know the person I’m fucking (or playing with), even if it’s just a little bit. I’ve done pickup play before, and with the exception of Ten Amorette (it’s a fun story but I’m not telling it without her permission) I’ve at least had a conversation with the person I’m spanking. And yes, I’ve had one-night stands, but I’ve still talked to the person, gotten to know them a little bit.

And to be honest, if I want to get my cock sucked by a guy, I’ll find a guy willing to do it. I don’t know if I want that; I don’t know if I’ll like it. I’ve never tried it. But I don’t want to try it anonymously. I guard my sexual health too carefully for a truly-anonymous encounter. Plus, standing blowjobs aren’t really my thing, unless I have my partner on their back and I’m fucking their throat. Though does that count as a blowjob?

Anyway. I can’t foresee a situation where I would go to a gloryhole, but if you’re into that, go for it. Just, don’t lie to yourself about it.