The BDSM I know has wide, exuberant smiles on the faces of the bottom, and mischievous grins on the faces on the tops. The BDSM I know has laughing and giggling, the contented sighs and moans of ecstasy. The screams of pain followed by grateful expressions of relief. That is the BDSM I know, and I’ve never seen a porno with that in it.
As you know, Tumblr has killed off all their porn, but here’s a quote I found on fleshmaid3n that pretty much covers how I feel about BDSM.
How about you? Do you agree? Do you have other quotes about BDSM that are more accurate for you? Let’s discuss.
JJ Rose, Author 
I think SOJ is one of the more fun groups, especially at their regular play parties. Here’s a link to one that has an intro for beginners: https://soj.org/#id=260&cid=1227&wid=1901 .
SOJ is an example of the advantages of joining a local kink group in your area – you can make friendships and have fun.
LikeLike