30 Days of Kink, Day 23: Since you first developed an interest in kink, have your interests/perspectives changed? How so?
The biggest change I’ve undergone, BDSM-wise, is that I don’t feel an urge for the kind of structure and rigidity in a true 24/7 TPE master/slave relationship that I used to think was vital to my happiness. I’ve learned to be fluid, learned that not every relationship works when I try to force it into what I thought a relationship “should” be.