30 Days of Kink, Day 1: Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you? Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us.

I’m a top. That means I really only get fulfillment out of being in charge of a scene. I’m also a sadist, which means I get fulfillment out of hurting people. Consensually only, of course. I do have a masochistic streak, so I like pain sometimes, but not always.