As I mentioned a few weeks ago, I had planned to attend the Sunshine Spanking Party on August 22. Well, I did, along with Partner 1. While there, we did three scenes together. 

During the second scene, I had her on a massage table, a pillow folded under her hips so her backside was presented more fully to me. (I find that a pillow under the hips on a massage table generally creates a better target.) When I play with her, because I know how she reacts and what she can take, I sometimes start off harder than I might with other people. For this spanking, I started at “quite firm” and ramped up. 

I also like to spank her thighs. During the third scene, I used a leather paddle on them, but during the second I just wanted to leave handprints. After asking for consent (sometimes she doesn’t want me to hit her thighs), I raised my arm and landed a tremendous SMACK on the back of her left thigh. 

Clearly this startled some people, because while I was waiting for her to recover before doing the other side (everything has to be even, you know), I heard someone saying “was that a hand?” 

Yes, that was a hand. And, before anyone asks, she had two good handprints, one on the back of each thigh, before we were done. 

Partner 1 has said that it’s possible fewer people ask to play with me because, when they see the two of us playing, it looks like I only go hard. That, however, is not the case. I go hard with her because that’s what we’ve agreed to in the past, and also I do warm her up at a light-medium intensity beforehand. In this case, I happened to have warmed her up over my knee during the first scene, so she was already a little warm for the second and I was able to start a little harder. 

So, for those of you who are feeling intimidated by how hard it appears that I spank all the time: I don’t spank that hard all the time. But if you want me to eventually spank you that hard, we’ll work up to it. However, if you only want “medium” or “firm”, I can do that too. Don’t be afraid to ask to play. I won’t hurt you. 

Okay, I will hurt your bottom. But only because you will have consented to that.