I have a lot of friends at spanking parties, and it’s always nice to see them. This year at Oasis Labor Day 2025 I ran into many of them, and it’s like no time passed, even though some of them I haven’t seen in over a year.

One person, who I saw back at GASP, agreed to meet up with me for a hard hand spanking. I’ve spanked her before. She’s kind and funny, and I always enjoy talking to her.

This post is not about the spanking, though.

About an hour after the spanking, I was in bed trying to nap and reading the Oasis telegram chat to keep up with everything. This person posted that they just got a spanking from their spanko crush. Now, like I said, about an hour had passed, so it’s likely that she got spanked by someone else after she got spanked by me. But for a moment I thought “am I her spanko crush?”

I didn’t want to ask because it would’ve made things awkward no matter what the answer was. So I’ll go on wondering. And that’s fine. If she tells me it’s me, I’ll be oddly proud of that; if she never tells me who it is, that’s okay too. Realistically I’m sure it was someone else; I know I’m a good spanker (and I have a couple of male friends in the community who constantly talk me up, as if they’re not both excellent spankers themselves), but I don’t think most people specifically seek me out just because of my reputation. They seek me out because we’re friends, or because they find me interesting, or because I’ve reached out to them to see if they’re interested.

Still, it felt nice for a moment to think it might be me.