During TASSP this year, Partner 1 and my long-distance partner joined me for a threesome. However, before that even happened, they started talking to each other, planning things, making sure they were both on board with the idea. I generally don’t mind when my partners talk to each other, but sometimes they’ll say things to me that make me hard. Like this:

I’m texting [Partner 1] about sitting on your face.

Yikes. But yikes in a good way. Yikes in a way that says “I’m sitting at the office, at my desk, and I’m hard now because I’m thinking about you sitting on my face. So thanks for that.”

There was also this:

We seem to be in agreement that it’s enjoyable to sit on your face while having a hot red ass.

Yup. Definitely hard. Definitely not getting up anytime soon.

Honestly I don’t mind it when that happens; it just reinforces how sexy my partners are (and they’re all very sexy) and how they make me feel. I love that they can get me hard just with a few words and a little imagination on my part. I love that when one of them tells me she’s thinking about sitting on my face I can almost taste her. I love thinking about spanking them, and how their bottoms look different (and amazing) when I do it.

Polyamory can be difficult at times, and it’s sometimes a lot of work, but damn, the benefits are awesome.

To my partners: you’re amazing. Keep it up. If I get hard, I get hard. I won’t complain.