I don’t submit. I can’t. I’ve tried. My brain just isn’t wired that way. But I do like things that a lot of folks consider to be “submissive” acts.

I don’t submit, but I like being pegged. A lot. (And should I ever have an experience with a real penis, I would prefer to be on the bottom. Just saying.)

I don’t submit, but I like being bitten and scratched. Especially scratched. Hard.

I don’t submit, but I like when a woman sits on my face. A lot.

I don’t submit, but I like making my partner come until she can’t move or speak.

And now, something new. A friend of mine on Fetlife posted a picture saying that thicc thighs both save lives and crush skulls. She has quite a queue of people lining up for the latter, and I joined said queue. I don’t submit, but I would like my friend to crush me with her thighs. (They’re really nice thighs. I’ve hit them before.)

There’s nothing wrong with a dominant person performing acts that are considered by some to be submissive. The last time I was pegged, I told her what to do and how to do it. The last time I was with someone who bites and scratches, she bit me hard enough for me to call yellow (which was 100% fine with me). The last time a woman sat on my face, I moved her around, pulled her closer, made her put her weight on me. The last time I made my partner come until she couldn’t move or speak, well… well, let’s just say I had to wash a load of towels afterward.

Do what makes you feel good, regardless of what other people think of it in terms of dominance and submission. It’s worth it.