I was messing around on Fetlife a few weeks ago and I came across a post from KayChaos called “30 Spanking Fetish Questions”. It’s been a while since I’ve done something like this, so I’m going to spend this week answering the questions for you. Today we’ll do 1 through 6.

1: When did you give or receive your first over the knee spanking?
As a top, I’m generally the giver. I gave my first OTK spanking to my girlfriend in high school, in the backseat of my car, on her bare bottom. She got quite red from it. I don’t know that she was super into being spanked, but we were really into each other so it worked out well in the end. If she’d told me to stop I would’ve stopped.

2: A funishment spanking or a discipline spanking?
I’m good with either. I get different fulfillment out of different types of spankings. I won’t say I like disciplining people, but it fulfills a part of me that is usually pretty quiet.

3: Do you have any favorite spanking rituals?
Not as such. However, with certain people, I will remove their panties for them in a sort-of ritualistic way. I also like to cuddle afterward.

4: The weirdest place you’ve given/received a spanking?
I used to meet people I was interested in spanking at a restaurant near my old office. Behind the restaurant was a group of offices, including a law office. I would park my car at the far back of the small lot, under a tree, and if we hit it off at the restaurant, we’d go back to my car and I’d spank them in my backseat. It happened more often than you’d think.

5: Favorite spanking position?
OTK all the way.

6: Do you like to be the spankee or spanker?
I’m about 98% a top. That said, I do like the sensations that come with being spanked, so I will bottom on occasion. I switch with my Long-Distance Partner on a fairly regular basis, and there’s a few other people I’ll bottom to if it comes up.