30 Days of Kink, Day 5: What was your first kinky sexual experience? If you haven’t had one yet, talk about what you hope to have happen.

I seem to gravitate toward summer camp memories when I think about things like this. I remember trying to get my (attractive female) camp counselor to spank me once, or to even talk about it, but it didn’t happen. Also, I remember being a counselor myself at sixteen, sitting with a couple of other girl counselors, both of them 14, and one of them pinching me and pulling my hair. It hurt a lot, but I never had the heart to stop her. That same summer, I fell into depression over something that happened, or maybe it was just teenage angst, and I used to take plastic lanyards and wrap them around my neck, cutting off the blood flow to my brain. I always stopped before I passed out, but I think it counts.

My first consensual kink experience? High school, giving my first spanking and seeing how red my hand could make someone else’s bare bottom.